in Quotes & Aphorisms (Men & Women)
One cannot be always laughing at a man without now and then stumbling on something witty.
from the book "" by Jane Austen
One cannot be always laughing at a man without now and then stumbling on something witty.
Women believe, or at least often pretend to believe, that all our tenderness for them springs from desire; that we love them when we have not for a time enjoyed them, and dismiss them when we are sated, or to express it more precisely, exhausted. There is no truth in this idea, though it may be made to appear true. When we are rigid with desire, we are apt to pretend a great tenderness in the hope of satisfying that desire; but at no other time are we in fact so liable to treat women brutally, and so unlikely to feel any deep emotion but one.
As the vine which has long twined its graceful foliage about the oak and been lifted by it into sunshine, will, when the hardy plant is rifted by the thunderbolt, cling round it with its caressing tendrils and bind up its shattered boughs, so is it beautifully ordered by Providence that woman, who is the mere dependent and ornament of man in his happier hours, should be his stay and solace when smitten with sudden calamity, winding herself into the rugged recesses of his nature, tenderly supporting the drooping head, and binding up the broken heart.
The same passions in man and woman nonetheless differ in tempo; hence man and woman do not cease misunderstanding one another.
What freedom men and women could have, were they not constantly tricked and trapped and enslaved and tortured by their sexuality! The only drawback in that freedom is that without it one would not be a human. One would be a monster.
People say I'm wearing heels because I'm short. I wear heels because the women like'em.
When men and women are mixed and well chosen, and put their best qualities forward, there may be any intercourse of civility and good will.
It is rare that one can see in a little boy the promise of a man, but one can almost always see in a little girl the threat of a woman.
A woman one loves rarely suffices for all our needs, so we deceive her with another whom we do not love.
I feel that as women we've allowed ourselves to be deluded by certain ideas that hold us back, such as the over-glorification of masculine consciousness. To me, liberation doesn't mean that I can think just like a man. Real liberation means that I can think, act, and be like a woman and receive equal respect, honor, and compensation. Liberation also means that even though I'm a woman I have masculine parts of my temperament which I can safely explore and integrate into my experience. In the same way, real liberation for men means that they can explore and integrate their feminine aspects of consciousness.